Why do we always wait until the end of the year to make changes? Couldn’t we just make them right now?
Procrastination. That’s what it is.
A lot of people wait for the new year and then start making resolutions, but then they fail. Why? Because they haven’t prepared and trained themselves for that level of discipline.
Think of time as an illusion, and the new year is just a symbol of cycle.
Ask yourself what you need to let go of before the new year so once it arrives you are ready.
Here are the 5 most important things you have to leave behind before the new year.
Serious face
When you beat yourself up, problems arise because in reality it doesn’t change anything. How do you stop beating yourself up? It is all about changing how you see yourself. If you see yourself as a perfect individual, then you can never make a mistake.
We came here as children to always be like Peter Pan. Many people are rushing to grow up, but it’s all about keeping alive the inner child. That’s why you should let go of your serious face before the new year and be more lighthearted. That’s the only way to fly.
Don’t be afraid of the unknown
Many people are afraid to use their intuition. You have to let go of your preconceived ideas of who you think people are. When the new year comes, the world around you is not going to be a stranger any longer.
There is no right or wrong
You have to allow other people the freedom of experiencing their own reality. Don’t force other people to think like you do. Don’t control other people.
We are like crayons. We all have our colors and our expressions, and that’s what life is about. Uniqueness. You are not necessarily living the best way possible on Planet Earth. In reality you are living a lifestyle which works for you, that’s why you don’t have to impose it to other people.
Self-hate
When the new year comes, which is only a continuation of this present moment, you can love yourself a 100%. Many people say they don’t like the way the look. If you don’t like the way you look, that’s going to start affecting how you feel, and how you feel determines what kind of conditions you attract.
Letting go of self-hate first starts by realizing that you are not this idea of who you think you are. You are so much more than what your mind can comprehend you are. We can’t truly know who we are. We are infinite. How can you explore infinity?
Much of your self-hate emanates from the relationship you have towards yourself. Stop to constantly treat yourself like a punching bag.
Stop making excuse to live the life that you want
You can live whatever lifestyle you want, but it will only happen when you’ll start taking responsibility that you are the co-creator of your own life. Many people see themselves as victims. In reality you can transform into anything you desire, but at the same time it takes the right mindset.
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