First of all we have to ask ourselves whether we are ok with not being liked? Whenever we want just to please people, to be accepted by people, we can never really express ourselves 100% and that’s what it takes to go to the next level.
The more honest and transparent you are with yourself, the more you are going to find amazing new connections because everything is going to align to your same frequency.
If you are in the wrong crowd, don’t blame the crowd, just move in the direction of where your heart is pulling you towards.
Would you rather not go out with someone and be honest or go out with someone and be dishonest?
You have family, you have friends, you have classmates, you have coworkers and each one of them has a different perspective.
You don’t want everyone to agree with you. You are not here to please everyone. You are not here to get everyone on board and be like you. That would be too boring.
You are here just to express yourself 100% and because of that you are going to attract amazing people.
You are your own worst enemy. It’s great to be alone, but it’s even better to meet your reflection.
It’s all about self care, it’s all about loving yourself 100% and saying, “I am good enough”.
Be notorious. Be crazy. Be bizarre. You are going to meet people who are going to accept you for who you really are and not for who you pretend to be.
You have to let go of society’s expectations. That is the only way to fly and be free.
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